Hi, would this annoy anyone else, or am I just going over the top?
So my husband is massively into the gym. Weight lifting in particular, and literaly goes every day.To cut a long story short there’s a woman that he’s ( very ) friendly with there that I’m not very comfortable with.
They chat all the time, before, during and after their workouts. She’s also in a relationship but not a very good one. She’s constantly moaning and asking my husband for advice.
Anyway I asked him on Saturday if he’d like to spend the day with me. My mum offered to have the kids Friday night till Sunday morning. So Breakfast in bed, go out for lunch, maybe have a few drinks etc. He’s straight up refused saying he’s going to the gym for 2/3 hours in the morning, and when he gets back we can do something together in the afternoon,
I’m not a needy person at all, but it annoys me that he can’t spend one whole day with me, also the fact I know he’s going to be there chatting to this girl the whole time, when I’m just sat at home waiting around for him.
Am I just going over the top or is this really selfish of him? Before anyone asks, I know they chat all the time because he tells me.