Had a row with my boyfriend last night. He's always had a bit of a temper but he outdid himself last night by telling me that I deserve to be in an abusive relationship. I was just so shocked and taken aback. He genuinely didn't seem to think what he had said was that bad.
But it is that bad, isn't it?
I'd said to him "I just can't win with you" and he got really annoyed about that too; English isn't his first language so he thought I actually wanted to "win" the argument, when what I meant was that whatever I say, it will annoy him. So he was already riled.
He spent about an hour ranting at me and telling me what a vile and selfish person I am. One major complaint is that I can't change my contact days with my kids to enable us to have a long weekend. But their father won't agree, and it is out of my hands. Bf thinks I shouldn't have asked I should have just told him days were changing but I can't because there is a court order in place.
I am especially upset because he knows I have been in relationships which abuse has occured in, and then he says that this is what I deserve.
I feel like it is the point of no return now. I don't see how I can continue with him if he is saying stuff like this.