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lack of confidence

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conway · 09/06/2008 22:21

Have no confidence and don't think my husband of 12 years really cares for me anymore especially as we bicker a lot.
When we first got together we were always at party's, drinking Etc but now after 2 kids I can't and don't really want to do that anymore.
He still goes out with his mates.
On the rare occasions that we do go out together he spends a lot of time talking and looking at other women( he is quite handsome)
I am thinking of a nose job as that may give me the confidence that I lack.
Any help

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Herodias · 09/06/2008 22:23

I'd forget the nose job for now.
get out and meet some new friends of your own, so you're not totally reliant on your husband socially.
maybe start with a course - check out your library for info.

girlnextdoor · 09/06/2008 22:50

write down all your good qualities and read them every day.
Get a new hair cut, do your make up, buy something that suits you and looks good. Do some exercise every day and start taking care of yourself- you will feel more positive.

Try a course/club and meet new people. Stop focusing on what HE does and focus on what YOU do to make yourself feel better.

Forget the nose job- that's not going to solve your issues.

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