My Fiance told another woman he fantasises about her

[holida]

I’m so upset right now but I’m not sure if I’m being dramatic?!

Me and OH were at a large group party. One of my closest friends is really struggling atm as she is recently single after 6 year relationship OH is aware of this.

she confided in him in a conversation and said she felt really alone and unwanted. His reply back to her was ‘don’t worry even I fantasise about you’
i have asked him what happened next and apparently the conversation fizzled out.

He proudly told me what he said to her in the taxi on the way home. Am I unreasonable for thinking this is awful of him? :(

Op never said that her fiance was drunk. Let's not make assumptions.

I personally wouldn't leave him over this one comment, although I definitely would be upset with it. I could get past one comment, intended to make your friend feel better (dumb as it was!), but not if there was a pattern of this kind of behaviour.

He probably felt awkward as fuck with your mate upset telling him she felt unwanted. And he didn't say I fantasise about you as a statement, it was EVEN i fantasise about you, which was probably the first thought that came into his head. He was just trying to tell her (in a fucking stupid way) that she isn't unattractive and unwanted, and I'm sure he doesnt really fantasise about her at all. A stupid thing to say - sure. Worth leaving him over - thats abolutely ludicrous. Some people just don't know what to say in situations that make them feel uncomfortable and he came out with a corker thats for sure.

wow. I’d be so mad! Mad that he said it and mad that he thought you’d be ok about it!! So disrespectful towards you.

I agree with this- it sounds to me like another example of idiot man genuinely thought this was the right supportive friend thing to say…