DH stays at home & looks after the house (extremely well - imo) but is a virgo and a little uptight
I work (long hours) and am a taurus & a little lazy
the division of labour is fairly equal (again imo)
But DH constantly thinks I undervalue what he does & I feel he undervalues what I do
Is there a way out of this cycle?
Is balancing the finances equal to the ironing?
Does the washing up balance the cooking?