He doesn't want to have sex

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He used to dress up for his ex girlfriend and had made things special for her that was 3 years ago. We had sex once 2 years ago then broke up and got back together recently. He doesn’t really want to have sex with me if I try and get him in the mood he pushes me away (not physically) and I tried sending him naughty photos but he told me to never send photos like that again.
I feel pushed away and don’t know how I can live in a sexless relationship

You mean you and he have shagged once in the entire course of your relationship??

He’s not interested, I would leave and find someone else

Ok

How do I end the relationship then

How old are you both?

Say it’s not working, ciao

Between 20-26

You don’t know your exact ages?

why do you need our ages.
anyway this is anonymous I’m 20 he’s 26

Age and experience can make a difference in advice.
it could be that he might just not have a sexual appetite; it could be that he doesn’t fancy you; it could be that he is actually gat but hasn’t realised it fully yet
if you’re 20 and he’s 26 and not that interested in sex, I would give him more of a friend vibe or just leave him completely

Just tell him it’s not working because you need more intimacy from your partner. Don’t stay in a sexless relationship when you’re only 20.

I’m not selling anything

He’s just not that into you

Hahaha. Onky an AI post wouldnt understand that saying. Try again.

Because it’s relevant to trying to help you… I suspected you might be quite young from your post. I also suspected he might be older. Is this your first boyfriend?

I don’t think he’s gay. he was interested in his ex who was female and has had sex with her. I’m bothered that he wanted to do special things with her and not me. i can’t live like this

Yes

OK. This might sound tough but end it and move on. It doesn’t sound great, and not just because there’s no sex. There will be other, better relationships ahead.

I hope so. It keeps me awake at night

I’ve been in a similar position in a previous relationship and it turned out 1. He was speaking to other women behind my back and 2. He just wasn’t that into me.

You have your whole life ahead of you. Don’t waste your best years on someone who doesn’t want to shag you!

This is the only reasonable approach, OP. Sorry - you may be sad for a while but I hope you can already see he isn't really a boyfriend and you deserve better!

Just tell him this relationship isn't working and your mind is made up. You don't need his permission or agreement, this is your life! Arrange to meet your mates for a commiseration/celebration session as soon as it's done.

I want him to say nice things about me and my personality but he never does. He tells me he doesn’t want to look at my body. To be honest my self esteem is very low and I don’t feel like I can get anyone better

This is why you need your mates. He's knocked you down, they'll help build you back up. You're 20 years old, for god's sake! Youth is beautiful, and you are youthful. You deserve to be sailing around like the Empress Of Everything, having a bunch of laughs, and getting laid when you feel like it.

Tell him you have cheated and see how he reacts