So. The guy I met at the gym who said “he wants me to get worn in by his dick” saw me on Monday. Was peacocking all over the gym and trying to be near me. I had a chat with him outside. Smacked his bum and jokingly said nice arse outside and walked off.
Honesly he couldn’t have got closer to me on Monday if he tried. Then yesterday he wasn’t there. So I didn’t bother messaging or texting him because I couldn’t see the point I just saw him.
today was much less performative. Didn’t really do as much. Still tested the proximity with me and came closer. Quite a few times.
so we left together and I tried to have the convo with him about what this was. He just said “I don’t see much serious coming from this but that could change” so I kept trying to understand what exactly his point was here but he just wouldn’t talk to me and repeatedly walked off.
he asked me to call him. I did. He didn’t answer. I just ended it all unfollowed him.
BTW he said my red flags were: getting annoyed that he chucked a receipt at me and putting in a boundary saying can you not. On a level don’t throw things at me. Then also he kept calling women bitches and I smacked his mouth because he said I’ll be his bitch. (I said sorry immediately as violence is never okay)
I tried decoding all the signals of him coming closer on my way home. I cried to my mum. She said block delete and move on. So I did. And I’ll never hear from him again I suppose.