Hi everyone, I wanna ask for advice . I'm dating this amazing guy (he is 37). We had 5 dates . On first we got bit tipsy and kissed a lot (it was amazing. Since then we have been doing sober dates (cinema, walk, dinner, went concert). I am dreaming of kissing him every time we are together it really occupies my mind (I’m definitely very physical person with high sex drive)...I try to kiss him, but it ends up as small closed lips kiss. He is sweet - opens doors, pays, plans dates, but is not really physical . I asked him twice and he says he needs connection to be physical but says he is affectionate once in relationship . I'm 39 and never ever had to beg for affection and I always have sex by date 3. I'm just worried he is not into me. I suck at initiating, but tried with little success over last few weeks. I just don't know if this is normal . Should I talk about it more (I don't be pushy as I already mentioned it before?!), let him take a lead ? But by now he should surely if he wanted to. Is this normal, what should I do? I’m just worried he is generally not affectionate (otherwise I’m happy to wait of course). Anyone ever experienced this in man did they turn up affectionate with high sex drive ? I always had opposite kind of men where it was big flames in the beggining..