Would you ever get married again ? I’m horrified by the behaviour you f friends/ family’s spouses lately and feel so turned off the idea.
im divorced, healed, independent, financially and emotionally secure and love my own company.
Id really enjoy a romantic partner too though.. a committed relationship.
However, in the last few months I’ve witnessed horrible behaviours towards some friends/ family by their spouses and I’m turned off .
for example: One called his wife a fucking muppet when she made an observation he didn’t agree with.
One forbade his wife from going to the pub because man who hit on said wife ten years previous was going to be in the pub.
One comes in from work every single evening, eats his dinner in front of tv and falls asleep immediately until he moves up to bed.
several
crotocose their spouses publically when they disagree on a topic or if the other doesn’t parent exactly the way the other agrees with.
Maybe it’s a coincidence but I’m appalled at the disrespect. Yet, they still cook, clean, organise , sleep with these spouses.
The bar must be low in my circle.
These people are generally kind, well educated, highly respected in their work and hobbies.
I don’t get it whatsoever .
Give me some hope please!!!