Husband just told me he loves me but not in love with me and it hurst so much.

[mrsmaddyd]

I dont know what to do. The pain is so bad. I love him so much and i desperatley want it to work.But i cant make him love me can i? Why am i always the one loves too much. Even my father left me and chose his lover over his children.

I feel so un loved, un wanted and i just hurt.

Has anyone been through this and worked it out.?

TLv and Alexa. That book is amazing. It could have been written for us.
I would definatley recomend it to anyone who feels the spark has gone out of thier relationship.
Things are going really well and im feeling better about the future. Honestly girls if you were a fly on the wall you would know what i mean. Im really seeing in myself that i have been neglecting him (that doesnt mean im taking the blame) but i am accepting some of the responsibility.

One thing though, i still have the inability to sleep at night. Have only managed a few hours each night since the weekend. Im exhausted when i climb into bed but the sleep wont come. Dh and i were chatting at 2 this morning something we havent done for years.