I have just found out over the past week last Monday tbh that my partner has been using Escorts from a site called adultwork. He has a full profile everything and as I’ve dug deeper I’ve found the messages back and forth. This has from what I can see been going on from middle of march. And the messages are quite something to read. He’s obviously a seasoned visitor as asking for her to be showered and no perfumes or smelly stuff please can’t have the stupid gf picking up on a scent she’s got a good sense of smell. We’ve been together 5 years and I am gutted beyond gutted how could he why could he. I find myself at the age of 50 not knowing what to do I can’t look at him as I’m disgusted but I can’t imagine life without him I adore the idiot. We’re not married so no big divorce but I don’t know if I can forgive him and u don’t want to have to start all over again. I need to speak to him but I don’t even know how to approach the subject with him it’s not like you can just come out and say I was messages on your iPad how ling you been going to hookers for? Any ideas suggestions or an escape plan would be very accepted xx