My boyfriend and I got back together recently after a couple of months apart. He is 50 and I'm 38. He's always been hard to grasp when it comes to sex. In the 6 years we've basically been together he's been through months of not wanting any sort of physical touch. To months where he's wanted sex 3 or 4 times a week. But it's been pretty dead for 18 months now and nothing I say seems to work.
I'm not unattractive. Men my own age ask me out. I'm not gorgeous. But I wear makeup. Smile and wear nice clothes. I wear perfume. There's no reason I can put my finger on that he wouldn't like me. But he just isn't remotely interested. All he does is pecks me on the lips and fall asleep with me on the sofa.
He's currently laid with his dog who's getting huge. That's another aspect. He just won't teach the dog to lay down on the floor. I've told him I'm fed up. But it's always made into a joke or he will say he's too big and needs to not sleep with us. But then nothing with that changes either.
We've had a nice day together but the dogs been stuck with him 24/7. He's just laid down with the dog so I've said I'm going to bed to read. He said they'd come through in a minute. I said no I want to read and be comfy. Him lying in here with his back turned to Me and a dog on my feet isn't what I want.
I've had enough. I'm so fed up. I can't force him. I know he has no desire for me anymore. But yet he buys me gifts recently. He cooks for me. He's done decorating etc. He is doing things. But I want a real connection.
I don't know what to do. Its making me moody.