Do I have a right to be annoyed or are my expectations too high?
We have been together for just over 6 months and I have already set aside a date for his birthday plans with him that falls the week after mine. He definitely knows when it is.
So far he hasn't asked me to save any date for mine. I already have plans next Friday for my friends birthday night out so this is off the table and I guess I just feel a bit put out that my friends and family are asking to see me on various days next week to celebrate but he's said nothing.
If I were to accept or make plans with every friend or family member that has asked to see me around my birthday I would already be totally booked up all week and he wouldn't see me.
I've been holding off on the hope that he might mention something but now I just feel like should I just go ahead and make all these other plans?
Or do I say to him....erm it's my birthday next week, are we gonna do anything?