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Sex in relationships

81 replies

Ellsx6 · 31/10/2024 19:54

How important is sex in a relationship to you?

I could easily just do twice a month and that would do me fine..some of my friends say they have sex atleast 5x a week!

My DH is great in bed so it's not a him problem, and when we do have sex it's enjoyable. I'm just lazy and can't be bothered most the time😂also feel like I have a low sex drive compared to most. DH doesn't mind to much as he's equally got quite a low sex drive.

Are we strange? Is it that important to you to have sex very regularly or are you fine without?

OP posts:
OchAyeTheN00 · 01/11/2024 22:19

@Iwashopingnottobreakmyduck do you both orgasm in both sessions? If we do it more than once a day there’s only usually one orgasm from my DH. Sometimes he will both times but often not. His sex drive is normal range though - he’d be happy 2/3x per week.

TwistedWonder · 01/11/2024 22:22

I’m long term single and regular sex is the only reason I would have another relationship

MaxTalk · 01/11/2024 22:48

Can't be arsed. Would rather do the washing up or give the car a hoover.

SabrinaCarpentersCeilingFan · 02/11/2024 07:43

Differentstarts · 31/10/2024 20:33

Considering half of mumsnet co sleep with their kids until their 14 I can't imagine many are having sex 5 times a week

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EBearhug · 02/11/2024 10:00

MaxTalk · 01/11/2024 22:48

Can't be arsed. Would rather do the washing up or give the car a hoover.

I did both of those yesterday. I'd far rather have sex.

GroovyChick87 · 02/11/2024 12:18

EBearhug · 02/11/2024 10:00

I did both of those yesterday. I'd far rather have sex.

Same. Although to be fair I'd rather do menial tasks over having boring sex. When it's consistently great though I'd rather have that than anything else.

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