@GranPepper
I can promise you absolutely and unequivocally that every single word is absolutely true. I have a massive issue with lying due to my ex husband’s behaviour over a ten year period, a whole other story, so no!!! I absolutely would not make anything up. I have absolutely no reason to do that. My post is a very honest and open one and there is not a single thing in it which isn’t 100% honest. I would like to address and explain every point, as honestly not being believed is a huge deal for me.
The cupcake was brought in for me by a child’s mum. The child had had a bad accident, and was unable to play out for many weeks and needed lots of help in school. I had been tasked with helping her. After school they had gone to buy cakes and she’d asked if she could buy one for me and brought it into school with a can of lemonade also. As I know it is a rule that we cannot accept gifts normally, I had asked SLT if this was ok, as it was a thank you. I was told that unfortunately, because it wasn’t an end of term or Christmas gift, I could not accept it. To say I was shocked was an understatement tbh! I handed it back at the end of the day with the drink, and explained to the shocked mum. Yet the teacher I worked with would often get doughnuts brought in for her and other homemade treats. She was mortified and embarrassed that I had been told to return it.
With regard to the toast, I was actually made aware of this very recently by another TA. She told me that when teachers go to get toast. they do not pay. She told me she had now seen this three times with different teachers. I have not witnessed it, but she is my friend and has no reason to say this.
As for dinner portions, what can I say other than yes what I say is absolutely the truth. I sit eating on the same table as teachers and it is VERY MUCH A THING!!! Our dinners are noticeably smaller. This is not a figment of my imagination, it’s right there to see. They have actually even commented on it themselves. I don’t think this is something that management have insisted on. I think it’s the whole ethos of how we are treated differently which filters through the whole school.
The fact that you doubted this was/is true has actually made me realise what appalling treatment we accept from management. So poor that is comes across as something which can’t be true.
It may be hard to believe, but I love my job and I stay for the children. Trust me, a lot of them have terrible lives, no idea where next meal is coming from, no hearing at home, never seen the sea. I’ve worked with many since they were 5 years old. They have no constant in their lives. This is why I stay! However, this latest incident has really made me question myself.