This is exactly it @DizzyDandilion !!!
I’m not on my high horse as suggested by @Whitak
Quote from @Whitak
you just seem to be your high horse here because you feel you've been treated like lesser than the teaching staff, when in running the lesson, she actually is contracted to make decisions and direct you.
To be honest I’m incredulous that my daring to not be happy about this situation, has been attributed to me having an issue with authority, not liking the teacher and being unprofessional. @Whitak None of the aforementioned is correct.
Yes @DizzyDandilion a member of SLT are present when we have our meetings. I love my job, I love the kids I work with and the people. However that does not discount the fact that there is a culture which suggests as TA’s we are less important.
We are not allowed our phones in class, teachers are.
We have to pay for toast, teachers get it free.
We are given much small portions of food from the canteen, yet pay the same price.
We are not allowed to accept a small token of thanks from a child, teachers can. I was told to return a small cupcake, whilst the teacher received many token gestures weekly.
A new TA was told to move, extremely rudely, in the canteen by a member of SLT, because they had intended to sit there.
We are told to put any reports on the system in our own time unpaid. Teachers can do this during the day.
There is an unspoken rule that we do not park in certain spaces in the car park, as these are for teachers.
I could go on! None of this means I am a teacher hater. It’s not their fault! They even recognise themselves we are treated differently.