If you felt strongly that you would leave or stay if you husband cheated, what did you do in reality when he did?

[BirthdayRainbow]

So many posters are adamant they'd leave. I wonder if they did.

I wonder if they thought they'd stay but left anyway.

I am not sure I thought too much about it but I suspect I thought I'd stay if he did.

He did. I stayed. Divorced 9 years later for something different. Happy with my decisions.

This is for a discussion, not judgement on anyone.

This is sort of how I feel too.

Maybe not happy that either of us made such selfish decisions

but happy that it was such a wake up call for both of us, and provided an opportunity for us to have a real objective discussion about our relationship, that we would probably never have had otherwise.