Husband leaving me for a sex worker

[FireTiger24]

I am undergoing chemo for breast cancer and have just found out that my husband has been cheating on me since my diagnosis with an online sex worker. He has only known this women for a couple of months, they are in love and is now setting up house for her and her child. She does not live locally so she is have to move from the north to the south so they have only met each other 2 times so far. We have 2 children together 10 and 4 that he wants 50/50.

I just don't know how someone who says they loved me and our children can do this and whether I should be concerned about him and his current actions.

Sorry OP, this has ‘romance scam’ written all over it. Just unusual in that they’ve actually met already. You can’t save him - he has fallen for it. Save yourself and your kids. Separate your assets so only his are at risk. When he finds out the hard way, it will be too late for his share.

OP, this might help for info and context? I am in their target demographic, so one type of spam messaging I get is: “Hey, I saw your profile and think you’re really cute. Thing is, don’t know whether to tell you this, but to make a little money I strip online for men and do what they ask. Bummer I know. But I get so horny and can’t go out and find a man as I don’t have a babysitter. I know you’re probably already hooked up and everything, but maybe we could just chat?”.