I've known my best friend for 20 years! She knows how hard I've gone through relationship between my husband he's been very mean to me in the past she's been there for me! I'm going through a divorce as he's said though councling he doesn't love me or want a relationship with me!
She asked how I was after I asked how she was recently she hadn't replied for an hour usually she replies so I sent a message saying is she there!? I said how I was struggling with the divorce that's it! I didn't go on I said it briefly she then wrote me loads of text messages.she said I didn't have the right to ask if she was there she said I have to start helping myself I was helping myself I was seeing a therapist and speaking on the phone to helplines and to my Dr I told her this she had a massive go at me and said she wasn't a councilor I didn't say she was she really upset me with this. She's my best friend I wasnt overly talking to her but I thought it was okay to be honest when she asked how I was as she is with me when she's struggling.
He's threatening to chuck me out the house I told her this I told my mum, she's been though a divorce so she knows how hard it was I said I was struggling with it she understood. She finally agreed to come to see me we had a nice time then she was so nice because she's my mum I thought it would be okay to be honest and say I felt like crying over the divorce she made me feel bad for this. I had once gone over to hers after a massive fight with dh and she said never do this to her gain if I do get a taxi to her s she will post me straight back she said she was there to listen. before I was at her house I was very distressed as I was making a noice out of distress I told my husband sorry I didn't mean to it was 11 am he coldly told me I woke him up I said sorry I said I didn't mean to I was distressed which point he said cruelly me me me when I was explaining I told her this we were at her house I said he was mean and said this she then said your just moaning she said she was there to listen before this wasn't listening she was mean. This upset me a lot. Another friend had off loaded all the time to me but as soon as I was crying to her on the phone said said not to off load to a friend not to cry to a friend she blocked me. I had another friend who I got on well with but the one time I needed her I was crying as he was being mean to me she sad I could talk to her she told all of what I said to our friend I said to her my husband was being abusive. She said she found it hard me crying but she offered for me to talk about it and to stay there. This other friend told him who said he didn't love me anymore because I told this friend he was being abusive. My mum knows and admitted he's abusive she refuses to have me back. I told her he once told me to kill myself and she still won't have me back. She knows he can be horrible to me she said she was there for me then she says when I'm wound up I'm hard work but I'm not trying to be hard work she's my mum I've tried so much to get on with her and talk about good things mainly. This friend accused me of trauma dumping when I was crying he said he wanted a divorce I told her how traumatic being sectioned was she was there she should have understood she said I ruiened her parents dinner as I brielty said to her parents I was going through marriage problems I briefly said it once. I feel let down by everyone I only confineded as I thought it was okay. His family don't like me as he's of loaded to them about me.