Basically that. We had the luxury of being able to pay a laundrette to do our washing and it was his job to drop it off and pick up, a few months ago he mentioned in passing the new ugiy woman with the tattoos who started working there and overcharging him. Never thought anything else about it until tonight when we were coming home from Tesco and needed to pick up the washing so I jumped out of the car and went in to collect, she's was fucking stunning, small petite (heavily tattoo'd) Thai woman. I came out after picking up the washing and said I thought you said she was ugly you liar she's gorgeous and very nice! He got all defensive and alarm bells stating ringing and I knew something was off with him. He confessed everything. They had been sleeping with each other for months when he said he was at work. I'm absolutely shattered. Our marriage was perfect. Please please please what do I next?? I've shouted and screamed and threw him out. He's probably with her now. My heart is broken.