So after a 13 month relationship, seeing each other ever fortnight due to childcare and not wanting to rush things with introducing kids due to past relationships.
We've been on holiday etc and have a holiday booked for a few months time.
Never really spoken about feelings just gone with the flow.
weve never had an argument or been stroppy towards each other before.
I've mentioned how I feel as sometimes I feel the relationship is one sided and instead of asking what's wrong ive been told I know where the door is because he's upset that I've questioned his love for me. Somewhat 1st argument and his response had really upset me.
Honestly never felt this way and didn't want to ruin things but I want to feel loved. We have banter towards each other and joke about things but the lovey dovey stuff just is non existent.
He's now saying I remind him of his ex and why can't I be happy and wants some time to think. I think he is unable to see what my problem is. And I don't want to make matters worse by saying I'm hurt by being compared to someone else.
So I've just said "ok, have a good evening. Speak soon" (I really don't like conflict or want to argue)
Have I done the right thing?