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Give me strength

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lurker1000 · 10/09/2024 18:16

Give me strength!

You know when you know you are not in the wrong but you feel like you are going mad. My husband is in a huff again and moving back out - he got a flat a year ago and has been back and forward.

Every so often - and this is my fault - he engineers. It so that he goes in a mood (because of something I’ve done or not done) and he uses it as an excuse to flounce back to his flat for a bit.

I’m done. I’ve been letting him back each time and I need a serious kick up the behind. I don’t think he will change. It’s too convenient - I’m here paying bills and he comes and goes. If this was someone else I know what I would tell them but I’m letting myself down - I give in for the kids but I feel like an absolute mug now. Maybe because it’s now a year and I remember being heartbroken this time last year when he moved out. But I’m done. Seriously done.

OP posts:
DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 30/09/2024 20:02

Has he ever put you first? The children first? Has he been caring enough? Because walking out to his own little flat that you're not welcome in leaving you with the children doesn't seem caring to me. It seems selfish in the extreme.

One day you're going to look back and wonder how in heavens name this leech pulled the wool over your eyes for so long. The answer is, because manipulation works a lot of the time. But you will break free of this crapfilled caramel 'sweetie'

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