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I had my first big "O" last night...it was amazing!

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ReallyHappyMummy · 17/04/2008 11:52

I have always been able to orgasm through oral sex but never through intercourse. Well last night i did! and it was a.m.a.z.i.n.g!

It was nothing like orgasms through oral sex, it was litrally euphoric and it was like my mind came out of my body and went somewhere else and i felt plesure throughout my whole body and i went really light headed.

Sorry if i'm being too graphic but i am so happy because i have been trying for years for this and never had any luck. I don't know what changed but my god it was amazing.

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SquonkTheBeerGuru · 17/04/2008 11:54

congratulations.

not going to google "congratulatory orgasm flowers" so you'll forgive me if I don't send you a virtual bunch

bellavita · 17/04/2008 12:06
Envy
SheWillBeLoved · 17/04/2008 12:09

x 14

ImflightbutIcantlogintoday · 17/04/2008 12:12

Ooh. I never ever, ever could do this, not actually by any method that any of my boyfriends could implement, at all, ever.

Then I had a different boyfriend, and I too have no idea why but something just tripped the switch and suddenly it was happening every time - he didn't always make it but I did

Shame he turned out to be a tosser! But once you have the knack, maybe it sticks - it's half the battle if you know it's actually possible I think.

Still get nowhere by other methods though, it has to be intercourse.

ImflightbutIcantlogintoday · 17/04/2008 12:13

RHM were you on top? I think that helps.

ReallyHappyMummy · 17/04/2008 12:26

Yes i was on top. I had complete control which i think helped. Dp said he had to think of broccoli in order for him not to climax too soon!

I am hoping now that a switch has been flicked making it happen again!

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Bumperlicious · 17/04/2008 12:26

Description of positioning please!

Incognitoforawhile · 17/04/2008 12:31

Ok posting under a diff name as I even I have my limits! I could readly do with some tips on how to do this as I can only orgasm through penetrative sex if a use a vibrator at the same time, I don't know why but to quote another poster it seems to "flick a switch". Anyway in the throes of a rare night of passion last night my vibe died - arghh! So need a new one, but some tips would be cheaper!

mellyonion · 17/04/2008 12:32

you lucky girl!!!
tell me howwwww please!!!

is it an age thing? my body is becoming quite good now (on the nside...its grim as hell on the outside!!) i'm nearing my mid 30s......isn't that the magic age that a woman is supposed to reach her sexual peak...or it that all lies?

KerryMum · 17/04/2008 12:35

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TheProdigalShow · 17/04/2008 12:37

I've only ever managed it once in my whole life. Oral, anything else, nothing. One orgasm in 27 years. I feel cheated. Just the once. I was on top. It was so amazing I cried big gulping sobs. Never managed it since, poor ol' dh thinks he's doing something wrong but I appear to have been out on the day they handed out orgasm attainment capabilities. I'm okay at baking though so all is not lost.

KerryMum · 17/04/2008 12:44

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ImflightbutIcantlogintoday · 17/04/2008 12:45

ahem
Never mind, tis too late now

Well basically he lies there and you sit on top of him, facing him, knees bent, and you just do the work! I think this is why my lazy git ex used to not mind

I can't remember exact details now as it has been about 2 years.

I was 32 at the time. No, not a myth then

BumperliciousNeedsToSleep · 17/04/2008 12:45

Prodigal only one orgasm ever? You poor thing! Do you masturbate? Do you have a vibrator? I think you need some alone time with yourself!

cocolepew · 17/04/2008 12:47

I'm trying to eat my lunch. Do you mind?

ReallyHappyMummy · 17/04/2008 12:47

I am in my 20s so i am not sure if it's an age thing. I was with my 'first love' for 6 years and nothing and have been with my currant dp for nearly 3 years and last night was the first orgasm through intercourse i have ever had.

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ReallyHappyMummy · 17/04/2008 12:49

It was very passionate as well which i think helped. Lots of hard kissing etc like we couldn't get enough of eachother.

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zippitippitoes · 17/04/2008 12:51

theprodigalshow get a vibrator

notjustmom · 17/04/2008 12:57

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notjustmom · 17/04/2008 12:59

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ReallyHappyMummy · 17/04/2008 13:19

I can't wait to have sex again now. I had better not get my hopes up though...

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notjustmom · 17/04/2008 13:20

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fifitinkerbell · 17/04/2008 16:58

Its great. I am lucky as I get one in every single position.

ReallyHappyMummy · 17/04/2008 19:13

fifitinkerbell You lucky woman!

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cyteen · 17/04/2008 19:33

Yay RHM As Louise said to Thelma, "Aww honey, I'm so happy for you...you finally got laid properly!"

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