Ever feel that it is difficult to get on with EVERYBODY???

[genia]

It must be me because I definitely find dh difficult and also my parents... is it that I am the difficult one but don't realise it? I am quite depressed at the moment because of this, dh and I bicker a lot and I wonder at what point does bickering a lot actually mean that you are not suited to each other? As for my parents, we are about to spend Christmas with them (5 days) and I am dreading any arguments we may have. Sometimes I feel quite alone...

Personally, when I find that everyone is getting on my nerves, it's a sign I've been neglecting serious "me alone" time. It's not a reflection on you or them necessarily, you just need to diary yourself in some time (even if it's only half hour a week) where you go and do something for yourself.

Of course, the whole Christmas-time thing puts strain on already pressured relationships, and usually means even less time to grab for yourself (and if you do, you usually end up feeling guilty you're not running around maniacally "preparing", but it really is important for your well-being.

We have arguments every christmas. Either with DH or with parents or because of them. Or they argue with each other and I feel miserable because of it. The best way to tolerate them all is to see less of them... bit difficult.