Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Tell the new gf that my ex is a conman?

79 replies

RedditFinder · 05/08/2024 18:21

My ex fiancé cheated on me. I only found out afterwards when he’d got his new gf (he’d cheated on me with) pregnant. He tortured me for years, on again off again. Never letting me move on. Telling me he didn’t want any more children. She knows nothing about me, and there was no way I could track her down.

His mum refused to tell her, I guess so she’s still have access to the baby.

I also found out he’s been pretending to be a pilot, and lied to loads of companies he was contracting for. They’ve now investigated and terminated him. There’s even a small chance he’s done something criminal in signing off the airworthiness of a lot of planes.

I found out she’s pregnant again and is selling her house to buy a place with him. I don’t know how he’s going to afford it given he’s now a laughing stock in the aerospace sector.

I was today given her phone number.

Should I tell her?

OP posts:
HarrytheHobbit · 10/08/2024 02:09

Is he called Jon Lindsey?

Ginandpangolins · 10/08/2024 12:34

S00LA · 05/08/2024 18:31

No because she won’t listen to you. Remember he is charming and a professional liar, he will be able to explain away whatever you say.

Thats if she even bothers to tell him.

OP, please listen to this. Due to personal experience, I can tell you that unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about his situation with the new partner. Can you whistleblow to anyone in his former career though - his actions could have put people in danger.

mothsandgoths · 10/08/2024 12:53

Do you think or do you actually know for 100% certain that he's lying about his qualifications.

Emj86 · 13/08/2024 11:28

I would want to know and think you should tell her. I’ve been in the unfortunate position of being with a compulsive liar and it never ends well. She should know, ultimately it’s up to her what she’s chooses to do with the information but at least give her the choice. If you do have anything to back it up with then send that as well.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread