Fiancé looks at porn and masturbates after sex (he finished)

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I’m feeling slightly concerns with my fiancés recent actions. Note I’m generally not the masturbation police and would expect it for DH working away or at home alone bored no sex for a while ect!
having said that my partner has always explained to me in past that porn isn’t really his thing and that he doesn’t quite get the obsession of you have a women who you are attracted to and are completely satisfied with.
having said that I was shocked to find my fiancé stood in the kitchen with a semi hard on scrolling through porn hun approx 2 hours after we had sex and he finished.
he was mortified and I was furious because of the I appropriateness, we live in a small flat it’s was approx 7pm myself and kids were sat awake in the living room reading stories
fast forward to this morning I brought it up again and asked him if this was normal behaviour given his previous attitude regarding porn and he said it’s very normal he knows of men who go into the shower immediately after sex and masturbate the key concerned for me here is that he added “ if they don’t cheat this is normal behaviour”
he then back pedalled become confused said he didn’t know what he was saying cause he was half asleep didn’t mean it like that ect ect.

I am left feeling concerned that I’m not enough anymore his statement endorsed to me that whilst he would never cheat on me he isn’t fulfilled am I over reading this ….honest opinions please

She said he wasn't masterbatting just had a semi

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How is watching porn cheating, where do you draw the line as some films or.programs can go a bit more in depth with the sex scenes so do you restrict your husband with what they can and can't watch, just because they are watching porn doesn't meant that they want that person any more or less then their partner people watch for all types of reasons.

Omg get over yourself, it's a bit of porn, he didn't have the neighbour bent over in the kitchen, porn is harmless and in no way cheating, yeah kick him out, lose a partner and the kids lose a dad over a bit of porn

Why have you resurrected a thread from last year about the grim wanking habits of someone just to stick up for them, @AMalePerspectives dude....

Hello, My feelings on this is that it was a harmful thing, he reacted the way he did when you walked in because he knew you would feel the way you are and he was just trying to stop you from that, sometimes people still feel horny after sex, there is nothing wrong with this, head have been getting himself worked up ready for when the kids had gone to bed so.he was ready for you, he could have been looking at ways of doing different positions to satisfy you more, he hasn't cheated by looking at porn, he may have had a semi and he would probably been mortified more if one of your children had walked in, but for those saying that it's a safeguarding issue, or there is something wrong, then it's just ridiculous.
Heay have told you that he isn't in to porn, and that could be true, he may not get get that aroused by it and just watching out of interest, he may have said he doesn't watch it to spare your feelings knowing you would feel insecure, why not go on yourself, find an interesting video and say to him, let's try this position later, I'm sure it would not only shock the hell out of him but it will.also drive him so wild that you did it he wouldn't be able to keep his hands off you. Don't lose.what you have over.some porn, it's really.just a.video with just more details. I personally now watch it occasionally now as I'm single but it doesn't do much to me, but I.also know.a lot of.women who watch it so it's not that bad at all.

They said he wasn't wanking at all, and I got a notification about this thread, I didn't check the date I.just read the comments and made a comment to try and make the person who posted.feel a bit better about herself

Oh we have an incel

I would ask a professionals advise on this . Someone for a different perspective who is trained in sexual addictions.
It's certainly not normal.

Looks like we have a someone else with serious insecurities, i help people with certain problems, I'm trained in mental health issues and stress problems, message me if you need help for this.