Ex Husband tracking my movements

[2024willbetheone]

Been divorced 8 months after a very difficult break up and divorce. Ex Husband was a manipulative cheat and controlling and I’ve definitely made the right choice to get out.
We have no contact and his relationship with our teenage children has sadly broken down.

A couple of days ago I visited a male friend of mine and parked on his drive. I returned home a couple of hours later to my 15 year old stating ‘Dad has been on the phone and asked where you have been. I told him you were out and he said he knows exactly where you are and that you have been at a man’s house. Someone has texted him a picture of your car on this man’s drive”

I chatted to my son about how this is not normal behaviour and my whereabouts are no concern of his fathers.

Im now driving myself crazy wondering how he knows where I am. Did someone send him a pic? (Unlikely!) or is there a tracker on my car or phone?? To give this some context, he is working away in a foreign country so would have been unable to follow me himself. I have reported this to the police and it is logged on my file after previously reporting him for harassment.

Any advice?

@2024willbetheone your son can see through it. Just because there are no physical signs doesn’t mean partner isn’t hurting you. Do not let this guilt (which he is also playing on) make you think you do not need/deserve help. He needs to understand he can’t carry on. You can do this!

This is clear cut abuse.

You go to the police, you get a non-mol. Rights of women can help you through the process.

Take these threats seriously.

Does a non moles order stop him from contacting you though? Do you have funds to get Soke advice from a family law solicitor?

I am sorry you are going through this. One wonders how much or SS time is spent dealing with malicious men like this.