Another example of poorly thought out grand gestures on my part. I have asked for the post to be deleted. I'm sure you will be discrete or i'm a dead man.
Just to correct you on one thing...my kids live with me full-time. So my situation is a bit different from most seperated dads. Been 7yrs now. However the strength that allows me to look after 3 kids seems to be my biggest flaw when it comes to relationships. I never expected my life back when i took them, now i struggle to look into the future and see one big happy family with the woman i loved and her children. Thanks Soapbox for your help i was panicking there for a minute, but you were absolutely right. I should not be here and won't be back.