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I'm absolutely livid!! DH has gone out for few drinks ..... and wet the bed with me in it!!

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bumblebubble23 · 01/03/2024 02:36

My partner has gone out for few drinks after work, he left around 8pm. He's arrived home at 1am. And come straight to bed. He does drink regularly, not too excessive (ish) but not like to say he isn't a drinker so can't handle it etc. He does however, begin to act like a teenager when he's had a drink and sip way too many pints excessively. This only happens if he goes out. So he goes straight to bed after getting home, I'm in bed asleep then an hour and a half later I wake to a warm sensation on my pjs and the sound of a hosepipe. It took a few attempts to wake him, but when he did he was moody, aggressive took himself away to the bathroom. Repeated phrases like I'm asleep. He hasn't once apologised, if you can imagine he's had a drink it's a massive wee! I stripped the sheets put a towel down, I'm really tired so got the spare quilt out. Next minute he rolls over taking the spare quilt with him so I have nothing. I'v now got in bed with my 4 year old, which I feel bad for as it's woke her up. As he sleeps like a log in the next room ( on the dirty mattress tho) what would you do in the morning? I'm tired I've got work he's 36 on a week night he has work, isn't it about time he grew up? I'm livid Angry

OP posts:
Mmhmmn · 03/03/2024 01:09

“He drinks Wednesday to Sunday at home, maybe 4-8 pint cans, he thinks this is totally normal I'm not too sure? Maybe a few more on a weekend”

That’s a lot of drink (too much)

solice84 · 03/03/2024 06:23

He is an alcoholic
Does he drive as 8 cans will surely have him over the limit the next day ?
His friend tells him it's normal to piss the bed? Either his friend is also an alcoholic in denial or he's making it up. Ny exh used to tell me his friends told him it's normal to drink 3 bottles+ of wine in one night or a bottle of red for breakfast during his gas lighting of me .

HomeTheatreSystem · 03/03/2024 06:27

One friend has even told him the bed wetting is completely normal as he does it regularly after a drink.

It's also completely normal for women to divorce men who behave like pigs in their home.

1Step2Step · 03/03/2024 07:57

He has a drinking problem. I bet he can’t go a month with no alcohol.

Baconking · 03/03/2024 09:05

Did he ever apologise?

FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar · 03/03/2024 14:55

@DreamTheMoors 😂

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