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Boyfriend’s friends

58 replies

ChrisHuw · 24/02/2024 17:29

My boyfriend went out for a night out last week with three of his friends. I had absolutely no problem with this and hoped he had a nice night out.

he seemed to enjoy it but then a few days later let slip that all of the wives and partners of the other men were there. He then admitted that they wives etc come most times the friends meet up.

when we first got together, he didn’t tell his friends we were together for a couple of years.

he says he didn’t ask me because he didn’t think I’d want to come.

im quite upset about this but he says that I am overreacting. Am I?

OP posts:
YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 25/02/2024 11:11

Woooooowwww he said what? Christ OP what an absolute cunt. Run for the hills!

Bestyearever2024 · 25/02/2024 15:19

ChrisHuw · 25/02/2024 10:56

Thanks everyone. I think I have to end it. I definitely deserve more.

You REALLY do deserve sooooo much more xxx

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 25/02/2024 16:31

ChrisHuw · 25/02/2024 10:56

Thanks everyone. I think I have to end it. I definitely deserve more.

Nope, change that to you know you have to end it.
He's a cunt who kept you a secret, makes snide comments to destroy your self esteem and doesn't take you out with his friends when he could. He has no respect for you and for that alone he deserves the fuck off.

QuickFriday · 25/02/2024 16:32

No

ginasevern · 25/02/2024 16:53

I feel dreadful for you OP. Please, please tell us you have put this piece of junk in the skip where he belongs.

Natureswimnow · 25/02/2024 17:00

Good for you OP. Stay brave. You deserve someone who loves you and is proud of you, a best friend that builds you up not tears you down. He is a pathetic excuse for a man, there are good ones out there.

HappiestSleeping · 25/02/2024 17:00

ChrisHuw · 25/02/2024 10:56

Thanks everyone. I think I have to end it. I definitely deserve more.

I'm afraid I agree. I take my wife to as many places as I can. Sometimes pushing for partners to come along. I like spending time with her, and all my friends know it.

Shitlord · 25/02/2024 18:04

ChrisHuw · 25/02/2024 10:56

Thanks everyone. I think I have to end it. I definitely deserve more.

Damn straight you do

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