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Newly divorced and wish to relocate with DC

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PenelopeTHur · 18/02/2024 22:07

I have been offered an an amazing job opportunity in an amazing country, think once in a lifetime holidays etc. The job will give my two DC free places in a very prestigious private school. The caveat: I am divorced from their father. They see him a couple of times a week with no overnights. This job opportunity provides housing, healthcare and annual return flights. Pre divorce ex and I talked passionately about doing the above with our children but due to his infidelity, our marriage hasn’t lasted. Should my children miss out?
I’m proposing they see him every holiday and he would be welcome to visit whenever he wished.

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crumblingschools · 19/02/2024 15:22

At that age children won't necessarily see that their dad is as crap as you do. If they are happy seeing him they might prefer that to a prestigious private school.

Does this job opportunity come with long hours? If so, does that mean they will see less of both parents, again not sure whether a prestigious school makes up for that.

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