I mean.. I know if I have to ask he’s probably not, but I just need to draw a line under it.
I’ve had 3 good dates with a guy from OLD but we had met in real life first. Last time we met was almost 3 weeks ago now.
All was going really well, we messaged most days if not every day, just with daily chat. He works shifts so can be a bit tricky. We got on well together and just had a good laugh. On our last date we had a snog and it did make me feel a bit giddy!
He was going skiing for a week the day after and I told him not to worry about messaging every day when he was away, just send some pics or whatever. I messaged to say safe flight and he didn’t reply at all until I messaged again to ask how it was going the day he was flying back. While he was away he did change his Tinder pics though!!
Then he didn’t text for a few days until last Friday when he asked if I wanted to do something at the weekend as he’d like to see me - but didn’t bother to arrange anything and was hungover on Sunday. He has asked if I want to do something this week (again would love to see me apparently) but hasn’t arranged a day or anything!
I know I said not to text everyday but I just think if he was thinking “wow I really like InsidiousRasp” he would be making more of an effort! So I’m going to leave it for a few days to see if he can bother to arrange anything and if not I’m going to message and draw a line under it. But I think I need some help drafting the words please, what do you think about the below (it’s from Reddit hahaha).
“Helloo how’s your week going? I was just wondering if you’re still interested in whatever has been going on? I figured I’d just ask instead of trying to figure out what you were thinking or something equally ineffective. I’d rather just be clear about it 😌”