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Should I give in? Sex after pregnancy

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WhiteLinen784 · 09/02/2024 20:22

I was advised against sex at end of pregnancy, baby nearly 8 weeks old now, had all clear from doctors. Had a terrible time post birth with infection.

My husband just keeps going with the comments about how he's not getting anything, his needs, how I'm acting selfish. I wear dresses/tights for ease of breastfeeding and he's forever trying to pull it up, look up it and now because of this everything he gets close I just get the ick and want to move away from him. Is this normal post birth?

OP posts:
Mainats · 10/02/2024 06:55

OP, this is abuse. Your partner is abusive. You need to face that head on.

effoffwind · 10/02/2024 07:28

Just vile

Bluewonder88 · 10/02/2024 13:50

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LeavesOnTrees · 10/02/2024 17:07

Op Please reach out to your midwife, GP or any HCP and tell them what's happening.

Is there anyone you can go say with for a while to let you recover properly and give you time to think about your options ?

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