They are unbelievable.
My husband has left me. I don't know where he is. How he is. It's bloody freezing tonight, is he warm? He is obviously feeling very low and troubled, and needs help, a shoulder to cry on.
I phoned his parents. They don't know where he is - as I expected. But I asked them to contact him (he won't answer the phone to me) to offer him a bed, somewhere to stay for a while. They said no. Apparently, I should sort it out, and it's nothing to do with them.
They are the most selfish, ignorant, despicable people I have ever met. How can you possibly refuse to offer help to your son? It's not that he is an objectionable person, far from it. Rather the inlaws are so wrapped up in each other, that they have caused untold damage to dh and his brothers. They sicken me. I just so hope that dh remembers that I am poles apart from them.