He should cum at least 2x a day on holiday?

[Pandapaws20]

So I used to be a traveller and travelled 2/3 times a year when I got with my partner he knew this and made empty promises and we never went anywhere for the whole time we have been together (we also had a baby) but no excuse as we never went away before the baby so I booked a break for us which cost around £800 he was happy etc and we just went away for it last week now we had to travel from gatwick which was 2 hours away and he made a few comments to say next time I should consult him as he would never go from an airport so far, we didn’t sleep the day we got there and we just explored and the next day he was like “I was proud of you, if you wanted to sleep yesterday you would have ruined my holiday” he also commented on the amount I spent. Now valentines is coming and I’ve already told him I want him to take initiative and plan things and be more decisive and stuff but he keeps now asking me what do you want to di for valentines etc like idk how I feel about this. Bearing in mind I tried to end our relationship but he said he was going to step up as I was doing everything from chores to planning to cooking to taking care of the baby the rent the bills and working. And he has started to do chores but these comments threw me off. Our sex life took a hit after the baby and the lack of support from him but whilst away I made the effort to be sexually active with him. One one of the days we had sex in the morning went out most the day came back to rest and I was exhausted and he tried to get intimate I told him no as I’m tired and he got into a bit of a huff and had a nap when he woke up he wasnt talking to me until we got to the activity we had planned so like 30 mins later. And then on the last day of the break he said he should cum at least 2 times a day whilst on holiday as it’s fair and it puts him in a better mood and his a better person after it and nicer. I felt sick at this comment as it made me feel like it shouldn’t be an expectation like that but I said nothing because I cba for the confrontation. And 2 days ago I had a covered long sleeved top on with no cleavage or anything on show and we had a delivery I went and got the delivery from the door and he got funny with me saying you could see everything you need to wear a bra, I told him but you can’t even see anything he was like well I want you to wear a bra next time. Am I being over the top about his comments or is there something more to them and am I right to not feel happy/comfortable

Dump the dickhead.

And then on the last day of the break he said he should cum at least 2 times a day whilst on holiday

He can have a wank, then.

OP, what on earth are you doing with this hideous man?

Tell him to put it away and you are not interested in his bodily fluids only in his mind.

Oh - he's a charmer. You are just a receptacle.
I think you know what to do.

This was my thought reading this. He is just one big walking red flag. Like wow op you really need to leave him. Its not going to get better. Far worse if anything

I can t speak for everyone but I knew a couple of women like this. Any man was better than no man at all.

Why are you with someone like this? You deserve much better

Please tell us what his good points are

I hate the phrase, but this gave me the ick, big time.

You can do better. And your child deserves better. And a happy mother.

Go do better than him.

And then on the last day of the break he said he should cum at least 2 times a day whilst on holiday as it’s fair and it puts him in a better mood and his a better person after it and nicer

What's stopping him? Presumably he's got two hands?

Like everyone else, I reckon you'd do well to leave him to it... permanently.

He needs to come twice a day? Is he Epstein now? We all know what happened to him.

really?!

If this is true the fact you need to ask is worrying tbh. He sounds like a disgusting waste of space and I can't imagine why you'd have a baby with him!

Eeeeew on so many levels....

One huge paragraph so I had to read it 3 times to figure out what was what.

So, I don't think you are from the travelling community ?

I think you meant you used to go on holiday 2 or 3 times a year whether it be visiting somewhere in the UK if that is where you are based ? or you used to go on holidays abroad when you were single.

But you are not single any more ( tho you should be ! ) and now also have a child, with him ?

Who looked after this child when you were away ? or did the child come with you ?

It seems you took your partner away last week for a holiday, you paid for it - why ?
He commented on how much you were spending ? Why !
How much did this holiday cost him ?

He seems to think that being on holiday entitles him to sex twice a day ? why ?

Now you want him to plan for Valentines Day ? why would you want that ? He doesn't appear to ever have done anything, except get you pregnant and even that takes two !

Are you expecting / hoping he is paying for this Valentines Day ?
Do you think he is going to take you to Paris for a romantic weekend ?

The incident regarding the parcel and your long sleeved top is irrelevant to the holiday, BUT
the minute he starts controlling what and when you wear things is a big no no !!!

When did you try to end the relationship ? before or after the holiday ?

I personally can't see what you are getting out of this relationship...