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WWYD - just found out DH looking at porn (alot), think he is on way home but it's his late fathers Birthday...

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LadyOfWaffle · 16/03/2008 16:27

I know I should bite my tongue for today but I need it drumming in I think, reached boiling point right now with DH so it's getting v. hard! Being selfish as he had work early this morning, but should have been done at 10.30, but I know he was going to visit his dad with his mum and I am being utterly unreasonable for being annoyed that he is not home by now, but I can't help it because as per usual he doesn't even ring/email and give me a rough time - I mean to the nearest time of the day ie. morning, afternoon, evening or night. Just ranting away now, someone knock some sense into me so I don't take it out on DH today.

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WallOfSilence · 16/03/2008 16:36

His late dad.... yet he was going to visit him with his mum... is the man dead or alive?

How did you 'catch' him? Did you walk in on him?

Did you find a stash of mags/dvd etc... or was it PC porn?

WallOfSilence · 16/03/2008 16:37

You haven't mentioned porn in the OP at all so now I'm rather confused what you're pissed off at.

LadyOfWaffle · 16/03/2008 16:39

Sorry - visit as in visit his grave. Found out when I checked email on MSN, for some reason it has history all down the side (internet explorer?) and out of curiosity I clicked through the days and there was loads of sites listed over the past 2 weeks (all the history).

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LadyOfWaffle · 16/03/2008 16:40

Didn't make much sense sorry.

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Greyriverside · 16/03/2008 17:22

Well as for the porn I can give you the male perspective. There are two kinds of men. Those who admit to looking at porn and those who wait until you are out

It's the way we are made and 99.9% of the time has no deeper meaning. It rarely has anything to do with feeling deprived and we wouldn't want to actually meet the women (or sheep ) from the pictures.

Also beware of trusting the browser history too much since the last time I googled for the lyrics to a song I spent 5 minutes closing down popup windows offering me things I hadn't asked for. Though I expect some were looked for on purpose in this case.

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