My husband breaks all my things and blames it on being clumsy. He damages my cars all the time and never pays for repairs and gets angry when I say I can't allow him to use my cars any longer. He contributes nothing financially, smokes marijuana with his coffee at breakfast and always has an excise for not being able to make money to contribute to our home. He complains about me not being a submissive wife and says that he could never trust me alone with our son who is 13, because I don't know how to cook decent food. I work 12 hour shifts 6 days a week. I have to get home at night after leaving home at 6:30am, to clean the house and my bedroom before I can bath and go to sleep because he doesn't even clean, nor does he make the bed when he wakes up. He just relaxes all day, picks our son up from school, cooks for the two of them, then leaves the kitchen dirty for me to come clean after work. He also regularly burns pots of food that I have to throw away. He dishes large plates of food and then eats only half and let's the rest stand on the kitchen counter getting stale. I throw away so much food daily because of his wastefulness. I want to ask if I'm overreacting? I'm not sure of I am at this point. 😔