but what if they met before, that would make it okay? It's interesting because my ex also thinks people won't judge the age gap so much when he's older.
I think Kate Beckinsale's boyfriends have been 20s but...what is "the issue"?
I will say I don't think I could have dated the MN stereotype of a 24 year old, who might still be living with parents and a couple of years out of uni. Or maybe I could, I don't know, I don't want to be prejudiced.
My ex worked from 16 and has been amazingly supportive this year (I've been unwell). His support didn't stop for more than about three days after I ended it.
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As for the music/film comment someone made, one of the reasons we get on so well is having that type of thing in common. No one else is going to listen to me blether on with script analysis.
Some people look older. He looks a bit like Chandler on the last season Friends, I'm thinking Matthew Perry was 30 by then?
I was always scared of being mistaken for his mum, I admire the poster who doesn't give a crap. I think we were okay - not a stealth brag - but to some extent I have the "black don't crack" thing. My older sister looks younger than I do because she is slim and does whatever Meghan Markle does to her hair.
I think the friendship will have to end when he gets a girlfriend but I still get people asking me why I ended it.
Sometimes I wonder it myself tbh. I do rather dread him getting a girlfriend.