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DH asked for ‘relief’

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Disappointeddotcom · 18/11/2023 23:09

Hi
earlier today my husband sent me a message that basically said can you come upstairs I’ve got a hard on that needs sorting! How would you respond to that?

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Womencanlift · 19/11/2023 16:00

No return from the OP/bot I see

BCBird · 19/11/2023 16:10

If j fancied it is would be up there. If not then wouldn't. As simple as that. Woukd presume it meant mutual satisfaction

LolaSmiles · 19/11/2023 16:11

Would also add that in a happy relationship, if you didn't like that kind of sex talk then you'd feel comfortable to say so and your partner would respect that.

But also, even if you don't like the style of initiation, in a happy relationship you'd roll your eyes at worst - rather than feeling revolted or wanting to respond violently
Definitely agree with you.

SweetBirdsong · 19/11/2023 16:19

justalittlesnoel · 18/11/2023 23:11

Tell him I was on my way with a heavy book to play whack a mole.

😆

SweetBirdsong · 19/11/2023 16:20

bluebeardswife7 · 18/11/2023 23:15

Ask him back 'can you come to the kitchen, I have a pile of washing up needs sorting?'

😂

Cismyfatarse · 19/11/2023 16:26

Given his recent age related lack of enthusiasm I would be up there like a shot and in the saddle shouting "Giddy Up.!"

But that's just me.

SweetBirdsong · 19/11/2023 16:35

@Cismyfatarse LOL! 😆

CheesyJacketPotato · 19/11/2023 20:30

Are you really the DH in this scenario op?

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