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Original poster

Partner rang police

67 replies

Streets23 · 22/10/2023 00:56

I honestly do not know where to start here, my partner rang the police for the second time on me tonight I've not done anything wrong

OP posts:
GrazingSheep · 22/10/2023 00:57

What caused them to do this?

Fidgety31 · 22/10/2023 00:58

Something must have happened! You don’t just sit there and think oh I’ll call the police because I feel like it !

Aquamarine1029 · 22/10/2023 01:02

You're sitting there quietly and your partner randomly calls the police? Twice?

PumkinPetra · 22/10/2023 01:07

?? Youre going to gave to give more info

Kinneddar · 22/10/2023 01:09

So you were what just sitting watching TV and he decides there's nothing on worth watching & will phone the Police

Sounds plausible

So what's the rest of the story

IDontLoveTheWayYouLie · 22/10/2023 01:10

I don't get why he would just randomly call the police twice in one night?

NicholJO · 22/10/2023 01:28

Come on op more information is needed I don't know of anyone who would call the police for f**k all something as been going on

Topseyt123 · 22/10/2023 01:40

So he just randomly called the police twice for no clear reason?

Sure!

Now what's the rest of the story?

GoonieGang · 22/10/2023 01:42

Is he concerned about you? It seems a strange thing to do if you haven’t done anything. Does he live with you?

vodkaredbullgirl · 22/10/2023 01:44

Drinking involved

Lithgow2000 · 22/10/2023 01:47

Streets23 · 22/10/2023 00:56

I honestly do not know where to start here, my partner rang the police for the second time on me tonight I've not done anything wrong

It's hard to give advice without some context. Hope everything is calm and well

AnneValentine · 22/10/2023 02:07

Alcohol part of the story by any chance?

hoobanoobie · 22/10/2023 02:24

You're not going to get any form of advice unless you give the full story. From the little you've posted you'll only get mocking responses.

Cranes2021 · 22/10/2023 02:30

It's impossible to give advice without further information

MargaritaHargitaysLittleSister · 22/10/2023 02:54

I've read that as it's the 2nd time hes done it, not necessarily twice tonight

Kinneddar · 22/10/2023 02:58

Don't think the OP is coming back

Talk about half a story 🙄

justanothermanicmonday1 · 22/10/2023 02:59

Kinneddar · 22/10/2023 02:58

Don't think the OP is coming back

Talk about half a story 🙄

Maybe OP has been arrested 🤣🤣

Kinneddar · 22/10/2023 03:01

Thats exactly what I was thinking 🙈

justanothermanicmonday1 · 22/10/2023 03:04

Kinneddar · 22/10/2023 03:01

Thats exactly what I was thinking 🙈

Let's wait and see ....😂

Original poster
Streets23 · 22/10/2023 04:04

Hes said I've hit him on his back. I have not I'd never hit anyone,

OP posts:
Original poster
Streets23 · 22/10/2023 04:10

My brother is here tonight and he owes my partner money. He was supposed to pay him back last week. My brother asked to lend more money tonight I said no as you already owe us money. My partner said fuckoff that's none of your business you've stripped me of my manhood tonight! We had a bit of a bicker, he threw a ring at me said we're over then rang the police saying I've hit him all the while I was on my sofa nowhere near him.

OP posts:
Tilllly · 22/10/2023 04:53

Have the police come out?

Debini · 22/10/2023 04:59

Did the police come?

PantsOfDoom · 22/10/2023 05:05

does he hit you? Abuse you?

do you have kids?

Ask boyfriend for the incident number and go somewhere quiet and ring the non emergency line and tell police you’re being manipulated by boyfriend (again), explain what happened prior to this and that you will be leaving tomorrow, going to stay at x location and provide your phone number. Also (honestly) say if this will be dangerous for you or not.

please do not stay with him, leave him tomorrow, this is not normal behaviour for a loving partner, even in a disagreement.

Bogeyes · 22/10/2023 05:42

He is not good for you. Find someone else. Good luck

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