Lonely in my marriage

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Iam so lonely in this marriage, everything is his way, my feelings are so neglected i just feel so so sad i cant stop crying

How do you relate?
What do you share?
What do you do together?

i think asking you to get involved in the house was a an acknowledgement of sorts / olive branch. if you decide not to, you will be polarized even further.

i also think you need to really consider whether he is able to fulfill your expectations.

Why do you love him? What attracted you to eachother in the first place? You list the reasons why he's not a BAD husband - ie not a wife beater/junkie etc but where are the positives?
You say you would rather give up all the material stuff for a husband who you connect with emotionally. Was there ever a connection? Has it got lost along the way? I find this really confusing.