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Original poster

I just dumped the bloke who's has been messing me around!

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MascaraOHara · 07/03/2008 10:22

and I feel good.

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NatalieJane · 07/03/2008 10:23

Is this your boss? Or am I getting mixed up?

Original poster
MascaraOHara · 07/03/2008 10:24

yes boss. well remembered

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OverMyDeadBody · 07/03/2008 10:24

Well done you! Good to hear it.

Original poster
MascaraOHara · 07/03/2008 10:25

All part of my life over-haul.

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OverMyDeadBody · 07/03/2008 10:27

sounds very positive!

Dior · 07/03/2008 10:28

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MascaraOHara · 07/03/2008 10:31

Thanks guys.

Dior, it's OK. I did really really like him but have realised that I was in love with a him I built up in my head not who he really is.

Not seen him for 3 weeks now and he's been messing me about over booking a holiday so I thought the time was right to cut my losses really.

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Original poster
MascaraOHara · 07/03/2008 10:31

How are things with you?

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Original poster
MascaraOHara · 07/03/2008 10:32

and where is the Fab & Glam thread?

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Dior · 07/03/2008 10:34

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Dior · 07/03/2008 10:34

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Original poster
MascaraOHara · 07/03/2008 15:17

see now I'm sinking a bit as he hasn't even bothered to reply.. I keep reminding myself that that is exactly why I'm dumping him cos he just can't be bothered.

loser.

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Carmenere · 07/03/2008 15:19

Well you know what they say M, joke em if they can't take a fuck
Seriously you did the right thing, make room in your life for the man who will adore you for the Goddess you are, this one was just in the way.

Dior · 08/03/2008 10:18

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MascaraOHara · 10/03/2008 08:47

Yes, was fine over the weekend as long as I didn't dwell on it too much. I know I've done the right thing and in a couple of weeks he will just be a nobody to me. Especially as we won't have any contact at work either.

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lou33 · 10/03/2008 09:15

you sound like you have done the right thing moh

well done

onwards and upwards eh?

Katelyn · 10/03/2008 09:21

Good on you !!

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MascaraOHara · 10/03/2008 11:03

oh yes onwards and upwards.. just toying with whether I should register on some dating sites or ban myself from men until after my birthday.

I don't really feel like I've been in a relationship for some time as we were hardly seeing each other at all towards the end so am sure I wouldn't be on the rebound but on the other hand maybe a break from blokes for a short while would do me some good.. but then again a few dates with a few different men might be just what the doctor ordered.. I've not been out and having fun with men for a long time now..

opinions?

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Katelyn · 10/03/2008 11:19

Whatever you like, whenever you want to....thats the beauty of being single I should imagine.

There are plenty of good men out there (i happen to have fished one for myself)...so when the time feels right, go for it. At the same time, there will always be a ready supply of them...so there is no rush.

Good luck you!

K

piratecat · 10/03/2008 11:22

moh, i only saw a few of your posts, but it did seem like you were putting all the effort in.

You will dip a bit, its natural, but in one week, two or ten, you will be over it even more.

A bit of time, and who knows what's around the corner. Well done for it tho.

lou33 · 10/03/2008 13:42

no harm in joining a site, you dont have to say yes to anyone until you are sure

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MascaraOHara · 10/03/2008 16:46

I guess no harm in registering but I'm looking at ones where you pay so want to be fairly certain. can't decide which though.

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EffiePerine · 10/03/2008 16:50

Good for you

He sounded like an utter twat.

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MascaraOHara · 10/03/2008 16:53

lol, he most definitely was.. even if only because he couldn't see when he was on to a good thing..

no other hot to trot 29 year old is going to look at an ageing, balding, pot bellied, wonky nosed, potato headed farty f*cker.. are they(?)

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EffiePerine · 10/03/2008 16:57

I thought he wsa taking the piss with the boss thing as well - well rid...