My bf is very intelligent. So when I tell you that there's been several occasions where he's made statements that have turned into arguments because of how IDIOTIC he can be, I'm at a fork in the road because of it.
One of the first ones that I can remember was about a tattoo I have on my wrist.
I got the tattoo when I was 21 in a friends garage, so needless to say, its not the most profound of tattoos.
But it was a semi colon before a semi colon then and a semi colon in this very moment.
So when I tell you that I'm a conversation with my bf about my tattoos, he goes on to say "I just don't know what you want to hide or why you don't just tell me the truth."
From there on we go back an fourth about this nonsense.
I ask him what he thinks it is then, he responded with "09"
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It's apparently obvious that it "was " an 09 and I tried filling it in. .
When in reality it's just a shitty tattoo.
The guy dug me out and alongside the shitty tattooer there was also shitty ink and a shitty needle.
And i even agree it looks like it could very well be 09.
But the fact of the matter is it's not.
I haven't a reason to lie about something like this.
I'll include a picture below.
To this day it's a mystery why I don't just fess up to it.
Example #2
A few days ago I was getting dressed to grab some milk from the grocery store, and my daughter was not having a good evening at all. Shes throwing a absolute fit and he says he's gonna wipe her face since she's already freaking out.
I tell him please wait 2 seconds so I am not in the room to hear that commotion it makes me grind my teeth!
Instead of caring about how I felt. Or taking into consideration that's my baby.
He starts arguing with me whilst wipingherfa e anyways, and the words coming out of his mouth at the same time my daughter is crying so hard she's silent were,
That's retarded there's absolutely no logic behind your statement your an idot.
I said there's some things you just shouldn't argue with the mother of the child about.
And he took the baby wipes (the entire bag not one baby wipe.) And threw them pointblank pretty hard at my FUCKING FACE. in front of my daughter to make it even worse. .
This last week has been really heart wrecking for me, as I feel he isn't capable of Truelove at least not with me.
Because this isn't love.
I made him food the other night and he takes a bite and sighs and says it's cold.
No thank you. No itsgood.
It's cold. Thanks for half assing my dinner..
A different occurrence where I said why do you think it's ok to interrupt me like I don't matter. And he said "if what your saying is absolutely idiotic and retarded I will talk over you because your wasting my time I don't want to hear it. (how can an opinion of mine be wrong??)
Two nights ago I asked if he'd take the laundry hamper downstairs for me, and he said no to that as well.
Tonight I asked him to please kill a spider for me. And guess what.
He said no. Told me to do it. I said a relationship goes both ways equally. We both should put in parts of ourselves for the other one, and only them. That's part of being bf gf..
He told me he doesn't want me ending up like everyone we live with.
(He's the handy man in the house)
I said your GF is the only one that should be expected to ask you to do certain things here n there.
I said listen to yourself for real.
Your GF asked u to kill a spider. And your acting like i ask so much of you. As if I don't do your dishes mine and baby's.
Wash your clothes, the baby's , our linens and my own. Fold your clothes the baby's and mine. Put them all away (ORGANIZED TO THE T. TO THE Q. JEANS TO SHORTS TO GYM SHORTS ECT.)
He doesn't even take his boxers off his jeans, or the belt.
And it sucks because I truly love him. And I know that if he continues to think in this fashion I won't continue this.
I won't subject my baby to watch this toxicity grow.
What do u think. Is he a narcissist. Because he says I am.