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Not sexually attracted

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Calypso45 · 30/07/2023 08:08

My husband has said he loves me but he isn’t sexually attracted to me anymore. He said any time we hold hands or do anything affectionate he just feels guilty. What on earth do I do with that? Feeling lost and confused.

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Calypso45 · 27/09/2023 23:38

Thanks, I oddly feel ok. Sometimes sad but mostly happy. My babe is very joyful. It’s hard when she’s asleep. I feel lonely in the evenings but then don’t really want to see people either. A funny feeling.

I think in lots of ways I’m very lucky. My baby is healthy and happy, I have a great support network, lots of loved ones, my job has been great. And at least I know now. I’m not being taken for a fool and treated badly. I’m looking to the future and the future is bright.

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Calypso45 · 29/09/2023 23:33

He met up with women when looking after our child. I don’t want him to see her again.

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scoobysnaxx · 29/09/2023 23:55

What an utter and complete abusive SCUMBAG.

Shit hot lawyer.
Take him to the absolute CLEANERS.

Leave him with egg on his face.

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Calypso45 · 30/09/2023 07:41

Anyone know a shit hot lawyer?

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QueenBitch666 · 30/09/2023 15:22

Tiredbehyondbelief · 27/08/2023 09:23

I wouldn't rush into things. My best friend found out her husband was cheating when they had a baby and her focus was all on the baby. Fast forward 14 years- she is still single despite being very attractive, witty, owning her own house and being a good cook. She now regrets kicking her husband out very much especially since he was begging her to forgive him. If you husband wants to move on - fine, let him. Even though I won't be surprised he will come back withinayear. I would definitely try marriage counselling before taking drastic action. There is no guarantee you will be better off with another man. As one old woman said when someone commented on how long she had been married "when I got married broken things were mended, not thrown away "

JFC your standards are low

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