I'm planning my departure. I think it will take 6 months of saving and planning before in ready to tell him.
He's an absolute prick.
I'm trying to greyrock but it's just causing arguments which I want to avoid as terrible for the kids but also I don't want to say anything that I regret/worsens things.
Then I try just being nice and normal but I can't stand having sex with him or being affectionate.
Any advice? Or stories of how you get through it? He's blatantly going to refuse to leave when I do tell him so I could have a very long time living with someone I dislike so strongly