What is she doing?

[Byggarenb]

Can u guys maybe explain what this woman is doing?

Hey.

I (30m) just want to know what your thoughts are on this.

There is a woman (38) who I see from time to time when she is at work.

She is a very kind and smart woman. Fine as s**t too. Anyways.

She does some things that makes me rather confused.

Just the other week we were chillin outside. She just turns to me (we were sitting on those outside benches) and just gives me the biggest smile and says "you're funny" and then giggles. She also thinks im "cute" in her own words.

She kind of mirrored my look as well abt a month ago I had been wearing a thin vest and t shirt. Next day i see her with a thing vest on as well and said hello. First thing she says is i thought about you wearing your vest yesterday when i put this on this morning (what?? Lol)

She seems to be rather excited when she is around me ( she always finding ways to be close to me) and she acted a bit goofy when she got near me, so, I asked her everything alright? Whats up? She just said "everything!" With the biggest smile 😂 I think she is nervous around me lol. She fixes her hair and puts Lipstick on around me oftern as well. So many other things that has confused me has happened lol. This is just a ti
ny bit of it all.

Are you wondering if she is interested in you? Could be or could just be being friendly. If you are interested in her why not ask her out?

Fine as shit???

What are you confused about?

Thin vest?

As to what she wants lol.

She's 38, not 18. If she were interested, then she'd tell you.

This is the third time I’ve read this.

Again?

Sorry, you lost me at 'u guys'.
All I can picture afterwards is that character from the Goonies. I can't take this seriously.

The only thing I can say for certain is that women don't like being called "fine as shit".

Well, based on this thread, I doubt it’s you she wants.

Speak for yourself @JorisBonson - personally I bloody love it. DH is always coming in saying "Hey Plant - youz looking fine as shit today" and I immediately giggle and put lipstick on.

As in what she wants for lunch? Or which political party she would like to see in leadership? Or if she's spent the last 38 years looking for a younger man who also owns a thin vest?

God that was painful to read 🤣

You're funny giggle

So I think her interaction is flirty however whether it means she wants to date you or just have sex or whether it's just friendly is impossible to determine because there are people who flirt like it's breathing air and they never want to date you or anything they just can't communicate with the opposite sex without it being sexual or flirty.
If you fancy her, ask her out for a drink. None of us are mind readers.

Yeah fine as shit is such a weird expression. Shit is not fine at all, it's disgusting. If I heard fine as shit I would have thought you're being sarcastic meaning she's not fine at all however from the rest of your text I figured you meant it like 'fine as hell'.

Are you sure you're 30?

I've never read anything quite like that.

I can't quite picture the thin vest and t-shirt thing.

Well from what you've written it sounds like she is flirting with you.

Although it also sounds like she may be a little drunk from all the giggling and fixing her hair and excited goofiness Do you work in a bar?

On a side note, not sure what a thin vest is though. Like a strappy number? How do you pair that with a t-shirt just out of interest?

But in answer to your question, no idea what she wants. To ask you out? For you to buy her another drink? For you to offer to take her to the hairdressers? We probably need more info.

But if you're into older, alcoholic, hot as shit(whatever the fuck that means) giggly, wild haired women, maybe just ask her out?

Or buy her some hairbands?

From what you've said she definitely fancies you!

I would just ask her out!

Is she single though?

Utter tosh.

Are you bored ?

Weird

😂😂😂😂