Cheating or Addiction

[KelJel]

Around this time last year I discovered my other half had been paying for OnlyFans subscriptions as he'd mistakenly paid via our joint bank account, it appeared on our bank statement therefore I saw! I spoke to him about it as soon as I discovered it and told him I didn't like it and that I don't want him to do it again. He promised he wouldn't and that it was a mistake !
Fast forward a year to present day , I've found out he's still on OnlyFans and that he's also been on an app called Tango again requesting pictures and paying etc !
He says it's a porn addiction. I think it's cheating. ( we have a good sex life he's not deprived in any way ! ) .
Help ?

The two are not mutually exclusive.

He's been lying to you. In a way, it doesn't matter whether you call it cheating or porn addiction.

Can you stand being with a man who lies to you in this way?

It is definetly cheating.

Whether or not it is an addiction isn't a certainty.

Even if it's an addiction - do you want to be with someone who's addicted to learing at other women??

And then there's the lying....

It's definitely the lying isn't it ! I've said I can't trust his word anymore and trust us obviously the foundation of any relationship!
I've found out I'm also around 8wks pregnant so just terrible timing.

Yes, he's lied and broken a promise to you. I wouldn't be able to stay if my partner did that to me.