Arguments…..

[Makalu1]

I am always arguing with my partner

The main cause are there is no middle ground - the outcomes always have to be her way. There is no ability to say there is a different view, and consider that her way may not be best way and even if it was in her eyes other people have different views

There is no compromise

Other issues that drive arguments are not getting things done, always being late, not listening, not engaging and white lies

i have raised all these issues and tried to reboot things but the same issues keep repeating

What should I do?

Break up?

Why are you with them? And ‘I love her’ isn’t an answer.

You feel She lies, doesn’t get things done, is late, doesn’t listen, doesn’t engage with you and you keep arguing. You feel she always has to have her own way.

This all obviously bothers you. You simply don’t like who she is and how she acts. So you don’t love her.

So break up.

Life is too short to love like this. Move on x

Is this the partner on holiday with her mum who took no interest in your cardiology appointment? It sounds like she's pretty much checked out.

It sounds like she has no consideration for you at all.

Yes - same one