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Is this bad manners?

23 replies

Smokeyjoe3 · 08/06/2023 19:18

2 scenarios-

would you find it bad manners if a guy stopped mid sex to go and have a cigarette?

Would you find it bad manners if you and your partner were out for dinner and they asked to go for a smoke mid way through the meal, leaving you there alone?

OP posts:
Restinggoddess · 08/06/2023 19:25

Yes - bad manners and a very bad habit

Whataretheodds · 08/06/2023 19:26

It would give me the ick enormously but I couldn't date a smoker full stop.

thenightsky · 08/06/2023 19:26

Yes, very bad manners. But I wouldn't date a smoker anyway because I hate the smell.

Yankeescot · 08/06/2023 19:28

Stopped mid sex to go smoke? Seriously? Omg, just when you think you've heard it all!

OutDamnedSpot · 08/06/2023 19:29

Grim

BCBird · 08/06/2023 19:30

Bloody hell mid sex. What a ploner. Well I would not lie waiting that's for sure.

Topseyt123 · 08/06/2023 19:31

It would mean that the cigarettes mean more to them than their partner does. Yes, I'd call that very rude.

Dogsitterwoes · 08/06/2023 19:36

Very bad manners. Ex used to go for a fag halfway through a meal out and that was bad enough, but mid-sex? Unbelievably rude.

LubaLuca · 08/06/2023 19:39

How long are the sex sessions lasting?! Blimey. Could he stick a nicotine patch on?

hugefanofcheese · 08/06/2023 19:40

I'd find it disgusting hence not dating smokers

PimpMyFridge · 08/06/2023 19:43

Both are revolting. I went out with a friend the other evening and she went for a smoke mid meal leaving me sitting alone. She did invite me to join her but why would I leave my lovely meal to go cold so I could stand in a drink cloud chatting. Won't be in a hurry to go out with her again sadly.

AnnaKareninnit · 08/06/2023 19:46

Smoking is revolting, and I wouldn't touch a smoker with a bargepole.

Leaving that aside, leaving either a shag or your dinner to go off and do something else is very bad manners.

MrsSamR · 08/06/2023 20:06

Basically just too much smoking. Gross.

WtP · 08/06/2023 20:07

I'm not sure the user name matches the reaction!

DivorcedAndDelighted · 08/06/2023 20:08

Yankeescot · 08/06/2023 19:28

Stopped mid sex to go smoke? Seriously? Omg, just when you think you've heard it all!

Yep, my ex did this.

Dacadactyl · 08/06/2023 20:10

Smokeyjoe3 · 08/06/2023 19:18

2 scenarios-

would you find it bad manners if a guy stopped mid sex to go and have a cigarette?

Would you find it bad manners if you and your partner were out for dinner and they asked to go for a smoke mid way through the meal, leaving you there alone?

For the first instance I'd dump him

For the second I wouldn't be impressed.

summerdresss · 08/06/2023 20:14

I would put my clothes on whilst he was away and wouldn't want to continue when he came back

Cranfor · 08/06/2023 20:20

I’ve my partner stopped mid-sex for anything (cup of tea, cigarette, sandwich), I’d me off. I have honestly never heard of this.

Cigarette after dinner, before pudding etc., I wouldn’t mind.

SweetAndSourChick3n · 08/06/2023 20:44

A man who stopped mid sex for a smoke wouldn't get the chance to start again!

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 08/06/2023 20:46

DivorcedAndDelighted · 08/06/2023 20:08

Yep, my ex did this.

My ex told me that he once fell asleep mid-shag with a gf and that was bad enough....

crazeekat · 09/06/2023 09:25

couldn't date a snooker but i'd be like cool, can u go in that drawer and pass the vibrator out for me while your gone.
while he's
out side for a fag i'd scoff th lot walk past him and say check is in there
waiting on ya, c u round

rude as fk x

peachescariad · 09/06/2023 09:27

I for one wouldn't be there when he returned from either. Nob.

KatyKopykat · 09/06/2023 09:29

Christ I've heard it all now

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