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Partner porn/anyone on EE who can tell me what this message is

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alwayswaiting23 · 08/06/2023 09:32

So my partner used to have a pretty bad issue with porn. We are taking at least 3 times a day, even at work. I lost my self esteem because of this and it caused huge problems. (Please remember everyone's boundaries are different, some people aren't bothered by their partner watching porn, others are)

So he swore to me he'd turned his parental controls on so he couldn't access these sites. Although I'm not stupid and I'm fully aware that he could switch these off an on as he pleases. I think he just do it so he can say "look, I can't even get on these"

So he opened his messages the other day and I noticed "verification code" from EE.

Everyone says this, but I'm not a phone checker. But suspicions got the better of me and I had to look myself. There were a few verification codes sent by EE, and all were times he was at work, or home alone when I was at work. Does anyone know if these are sent after changing your parental controls on and off? I have tried to contact them and ask and they just said it's changes to your account.

I can't take this porn addition still/again and I want to find out everything I can before I say anything about it (which he will deny anyway even if he has).

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Bells3032 · 08/06/2023 09:38

I wouldn't necessarily jump to conclusions. It could be he has verification for his account so every time he logs in to his phone account it sends a code etc

alwayswaiting23 · 08/06/2023 09:40

Bells3032 · 08/06/2023 09:38

I wouldn't necessarily jump to conclusions. It could be he has verification for his account so every time he logs in to his phone account it sends a code etc

Thanks, no I'm trying not to. I did wonder if he was checking his account but he has a spend manager and unlimited everything so I don't know

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